Brian McAtear

1961 - 2001
LocationBelfast, Ireland
Age40 years
Date of Birth1961
Date of Death12/2001
Visitors404 since 03/11/2007
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Brian was known as macers and was the life and soul of every party. He was easy going and would always help you out. No matter what you needed he would not have turned you down and would never mention it again. He meet a girl over in America while on holidays they started going out but soon after it fell apart when she went back to America she killed herself. macers then meet his wife they had twins and things where looking good for macers. macers never understood why people got worried and why they weren't able to have a laugh. He always jocked about not wanting to get old he said "who would want to be old and wrinkly". We had never seen it coming but on the 19th of december 2001 macers hung himself in the garage. he was only 40. every one was shocked at how someone so easy going would do that.he was cremated on the 21st. ever since he is sadly missed by all he is never far from our thought and will always remain there. macers we love you dearly xxx

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Suicide, a word not spoken, it’s almost taboo
Until this tragic event arrives, and affects you
Sssh! Be quiet, don’t mention that word
It doesn’t happen, that’s absurd
Then one day it strikes at home
Shattering your life, right down to the bone
The suicide not spoken has arrived
Now you are the one left to survive
Friends you knew, that you once had
Think you are crazy, maybe even mad
Support from them is not there
All you want is someone to care
They say they know and understand it’s true
It’s funny, they don’t even have a clue
They can’t comprehend the loss of a life
The pain, the suffering, and all of the strife
Move on, get over it, they say to you
Life goes on, you must start anew
They don’t know about the part
The hole that is now left in your heart
Those words I say to them though true
I pray to God this doesn’t happen to you

Barbara Richard Littles Mum (GTS Friend)

November 3, 2007
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